Tolerance, obedience & patience,  and understanding (positioned as Love!) are accepted by all authorities; Jesus!, too.  

1Co 13:1; Though I speak with the tongues of men of angels, and have not charity (ag-a-pe: Tolerance, Obedience/patience and acceptance!) (accepted as a baby!),  I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.

1Co 13:2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity (Tolerance/patience and acceptance!) I am nothing.

1Co 13:3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity (Tolerance/patience and acceptance!), it profiteth me nothing.

1Co 13:4 Charity (Tolerance/patience and acceptance!) suffereth long, and is kind; charity (Tolerance/patience and acceptance!) envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

1Co 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

1Co 13:6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

1Co 13:7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

1Co 13:8 Charity (Tolerance, obedience/patience and understanding are accepted!) never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.

1Co 13:9 For we know in part (as a child on earth), and we prophesy (look ahead as a mature person) in part (as child).

1Co 13:10 But when that which is perfect (I saw it coming) is come (I am now mature enough to see what is coming), then that which is in part shall be done away.

1Co 13:11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child  (patience?), I thought as a child: but when I became a man (mature, understanding), I put away childish things.

1Co 13:12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part (about any thing); but then (with education, glasses, etc. ) shall I know even as also I am known (if they have education, glasses, etc).

1Co 13:13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity (Tolerance/understanding and acceptance!), these three; but the greatest of these is charity (Tolerance/understanding and acceptance!)      [(having given all for the baby) (Jesus?)].

Please notice: Do not change phil-os or er-os into the relationship of ag-a-pe. They are three different thoughts and processes. First, there is phil-os that moves matter into blood.  er-os, that makes children, from whom One became Jesus: a special One of It's Kind. And the  last Greek word in the New Testament, is ag-a-pe.  It shows the relationship of A Person who has Title as a Turkish Soldier or as a King; A person who has Responsibility as a Lord!  A Person who is willing to give Salvation for working for his Kingdom. The  Greeks would call it extra energy (Jesus, The King of Kings and Lord of  Lords as The Savior of the World!).  Amen!