1.   Accept your own Authority with your own Mental, Physical, and Spiritual Powers first. That Authority  begins at the  time that your Source of Life on earth (your first  breath) begins. Amen! 

2.   Look for your Primary Authority (Father, Mother, Guardian, etc.) who was with you at your birth.  Accept the positive thoughts of their "Skin Hunger" (holding, touching, baby-touch, "binding", etc.). Listen and learn from them. Those that are guiding you will give you unconditional love (Philos). Their  relationships should be dominate. This is the time to ask questions and create ideas. This is not the time to "tear down the establishment". "Baby-time is Philos-time". Don't mess it up. Let your Teachers Teach. Your time is coming.

3.   During the adolescent loving life (Eros), do your best to add your physical and spiritual thoughts, and knock down the negative thoughts and ideas. As you learn how to use the positive thoughts and physical acculturation, again, this is not the time to "tear down the establishment". You may need it when you are older or Old. Example: "And the child (Jesus) grew, and waxed strong in spirit, filled with wisdom:..." Jesus was born and lived until he was more than twenty-five years old.

As a young man, Jesus had learned to listen to his Fathers, both Heaven and earth. He had accepted the position of his Fathers' Will, a Carpenter. He listened to his Mother. He was now ready to get married. Amen! And he did! As a groom, he set his sight toward the time of marriage.  

Special Eros will stay with you from your birth until you die. 

 Last, Mr. Person (generic), let him (the other person) be first! Do all that you (your self) can do with love (Eros), and do what he (the other person) wants (Agape). Remember your "home-training".

4.   It may be nice to give ALL of yourself, including your money. If you have a problem about giving all (money), find another person. When you give all, your thoughts will be satisfied. If you feel that you don't want to "give all," find another person, and don't mess it up. This idea will be finished soon.

When you are thinking about getting married, think first. "Give ALL". Do not give sex, because that is making children after you have given all of your money. It has to begin with the Woman giving ALL MONEY, NOT SEX. She is in the business. She is the "buyer", not the "Seller". SHE  is the one who looks for good relationships for herself. "I want a man!"

Were are the Christian Men?

A man cannot look for a wife. All that HE can do is to look pretty. All that he can do is to be there. Mr. Man, get in position. Be careful of your baggage and your "merchandise", for she  should have with her another person; not The Father in Heaven, but a Father on Earth;  "One who brought her 'thus far'!" An COUNSELOR- "Advisor"-ADVOCATOR.

Look, "Attractive Christian Women looking for a committed relationship with an attractive Christian Man who has ambition", (if you don't kill him) is standing for your choice. There are many waiting for  you. If you are really looking for one, check as much as you can, bring your father, and take the young man home. If there were any problems, talk to your father and both men will love you more.

Once you are married, then Let him be a Lover. Or would Jesus be in the same position if He was to be married to you? The Prayer is the same.

This picture is perfect. You, Miss. Lady, if you accept your father as Priest at the Marriage services as Father in Heaven and the Father on Earth; and if he is a Lawyer as Advocator, you need nothing else. 

Stop looking for a Mate. Start looking for a Man and let him be your  Husband. He will be standing, waiting here for you. Give to him, ALL, knowing who he is with your father. You will have three men who loves you and will take care for you for years to come. Amen! Be careful, lest you crucify him and Jesus. Try the "Surrendered Wife's Idea".                 

 If you don't respect the person who has authority (your primary person), when he has gone, you may never get him back.